Have you ever liked someone? Like, very very much. At a point that you couldn't even understand why you're feeling like this. You see a stranger or a friend and you suddenly, in one minute, you feel appealed to them. Well, that's a crush, and this word is exactly what it feels like. Because you're falling all of a sudden for someone and it hurts... gradually...
Both girls and boys have crushes. It's just that girls are more complicated when the like about someone. Because liking someone, having a crush on someone, loving someone are totally different things! And our minds are always a mess, we should accept this. In my opinion, having a crush means stressing over everything happens between you and him, getting jealous when other girls talk/hug/kiss him (because he belongs to you of course! the fact that you may don't talk to them, doesn't matter!!! Oh, and it's rude of these girls to interfere with your crush! -stay at your safety zone-) daydreaming about your dates/fights/movie-nights/deep convos/marriage, finding excuses to talk to him, and so on..
The thing that ALWAYS happens with me is that I have crushes on boys I don't talk to/ I've never talked to/ they don't know I exist. So, all I can do is to admire them from a distance. But this is way too difficult, especially when he's super cute and hot and you wanna touch his hair.
Another category of crushes which is the best, is celebrity crushes! Actors, singers, musicians, artists, models, tv celebs, youtubers, everyone who's in the limelight! And these crushes are the reason why girls have high expectations. An advantage of them is that you can google them whenever you want/ stalk them on instagram-facebook-youtube. You have their photos and vids on your phone and you feel like they're always with you. The main drawback is that you can't date them. Although, chances of marrying a celebrity crush are higher than marrying your school-crush who you just admire.
So, that's what I wanted to state about crushes! What about you? Do you have any crushes? (of course you do) Who is your celebrity crush right now? (mine is Joe Sugg)
There are some types of crushes. As I couldn't desrcibe them in a better way, here's a video of one of my favorite youtubers:
Both girls and boys have crushes. It's just that girls are more complicated when the like about someone. Because liking someone, having a crush on someone, loving someone are totally different things! And our minds are always a mess, we should accept this. In my opinion, having a crush means stressing over everything happens between you and him, getting jealous when other girls talk/hug/kiss him (because he belongs to you of course! the fact that you may don't talk to them, doesn't matter!!! Oh, and it's rude of these girls to interfere with your crush! -stay at your safety zone-) daydreaming about your dates/fights/movie-nights/deep convos/marriage, finding excuses to talk to him, and so on..The thing that ALWAYS happens with me is that I have crushes on boys I don't talk to/ I've never talked to/ they don't know I exist. So, all I can do is to admire them from a distance. But this is way too difficult, especially when he's super cute and hot and you wanna touch his hair.Another category of crushes which is the best, is celebrity crushes! Actors, singers, musicians, artists, models, tv celebs, youtubers, everyone who's in the limelight! And these crushes are the reason why girls have high expectations. An advantage of them is that you can google them whenever you want/ stalk them on instagram-facebook-youtube. You have their photos and vids on your phone and you feel like they're always with you. The main drawback is that you can't date them. Although, chances of marrying a celebrity crush are higher than marrying your school-crush who you just admire.
So, that's what I wanted to state about crushes! What about you? Do you have any crushes? (of course you do) Who is your celebrity crush right now? (mine is Joe Sugg)
Crushes....guuuurl don't even get me started on them...Harry my bae Styles is the hottest human being that this earth has ever faced...Too hot for words I'm telling you!!! Crushes in real life...ouch...Got one of them too...But he doesn't care so....Instead of crushes they should have been called crashes.Because that's what they do...the crash you...You lose your mind...Your entirety is fading...You're losing yourself...And especially when it's not mutual it hurts like being stabbed! Sometimes I can't choose what's worse a celebrity crush or an actual real life one...I mean in one case the person might not know who you are, but in real life they could just be ignoring you for all you know or make fun of you behind your back with their friends...
ReplyDeleteI can totally feel you! Having a celebrity crush and knowing you will never meet them... It hurts like hell. I love Marc Hudson (the lead vocalist of DragonForce) sooooo much that I don't even care for others!
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