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Hey readers! Valentine's Day is about to come and has different meaning for every one of us. For me, it's just another day in the calendar. For some of you is an opportunity to show your love to your boyfriend/girlfriend. Some others claim that it is a day you can show your love to everyone, whether they are your family/pets or whatever. But what is actually this day about? Is it 100% about love?
Human tend to create days for literally everything. It would be ridiculous if they hadn't created one for love, because love is an important matter. However, this day is not for everyone we love, but it's for those who are dating someone. You can't ask your mother or grandparents to be your valentine, right? Of course you love them all, but this day is not about this kind of love. Also, Valentine's Day gives the opportunity to some people to show that they're interested in someone. They may send an anonymous letter or ask their crush -in person- to date them.
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As we all know, benefits are always hidden next to every "event". Businesses brainwash us that we should show our love through expensive jewelry, underwears, clothes etc. Factories produce tons of chocolates, bears holding red hearts with messages and other fluffy animals with cute eyes and smiley faces. I don't say that I don't like chocolates and gifts, but the fact that so many money are given not for a specific reason is what I don't like. Year has 365 days, so we can buy whatever we want to the ones we love at any time. What is more, love is not estimated by how money you spend on a valentine's-day gift. Even a simple hug/kiss or "I love you" will be enough for someone who really loves you.
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As far as I'm concerned, I've been single for 15 years, that is I've never dated anyone. I never had a valentine or a secret-fan. If you're asking me, I really enjoy it! I fancy the idea of having a boyfriend, but I am used to not having one and it's okay. Most of the single ones get "depressed" this day, they may hate on couples and cry under their blankets, cuddling a bowl of ice-cream and watching series. My advice for you is to stop considering it as a day to complain about how lonely you are, because you're destroying yourself. We can all be grumpy and moody sometimes, but we should not blame it all to ourselves. I've been doing this for many years and last year I completely forgot about it and went out with my friends. And, yes, I do get upset when I see commercial about Valentine's day, where cute couple prepare something special for their lover. I'm guilty of that and I wish I could not care that much about it.
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What I have to say to singles out there is: grab youself some pizza, pop corn, a good movie and friends, lie on the couch, wear comfy pajamas and laugh as much as you can. Actually, do this at any time, it puts you in a good mood and refreshes you. Avoid listening to love songs and watching drama/romance films. Instead, pick a comedy or a science fiction film or just watch The Big Bang Theory! Don't get angry if your friends are dating someone and they always discuss about what present they should get them and what to wear on their day out. Being mad doesn't change the fact that you are single.
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For those you are in a relationship, here's my advice: don't push yourself into trying to find the most expensive and special present for your boyfriend/girlfriend. I am sure that they will appreciate it more if you show your love through a hug or by playing a song on an instrument you may play or by taking pictures with them and things like that. Make some chocolate, cook a delicious dinner, order pizza and rent a nice movie, or do nothing (and by nothing, I mean that you can just chat with him/her as usual. Send your good morning/night messages with 2-3 more heart emojis). You are not forced to celebrate that day, even if you're dating someone.
So, what about you? Are you single or in relationship? What are you planning to do on Valentine's Day? Do you have any cool Valentine's Day stories you wanna share? Let me know in the comments!
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This post is 100% my opinion and I can understand that opinions differ. If you feel that I stated something wrong, then write it in the comments for further explanation! xxx